Secular law is legislated precendents not stone sacred

Marriage is a legal contract and everyone is equal under the law

Secular Law and Commandments

I’ve been meaning to write a post for a while about the claim that Western Democracies are founded in Judeo-Christian religion – in particular, that the so called 10 Commandments are the basis for western law.

Considering that there are many different versions of the commandments, even rolling them into a comprehensive version shows that most of the commandments have no reality in law.

Most of the commandments are about blindly worshipping authority, be it a god or your parents. Not having jealous or envious feelings about other people and their property and some behavioural guides.

But the only commandments that have any reality is law is not killing and not stealing. Do we really need to go outside of human experience to know that stealing and killing are bad things to do to each other?

I mean, if the commandments are supposed to represent how to be the best kind of person – why isn’t not raping or not assaulting people on the list?

In any event, Austin Cline has a good breakdown of why the commandments are not the foundation for any secular laws – but shows the relationship of how religious thinking did make some of the commandments into laws that were rolled back, because there was no secular social need that was served by such laws – for example, no retail stores open on Sunday – since how we spend our days are our own concern and not the state’s concern to restrict our options based on some people’s religion.

After all, you can stay home and not shop any day of the week you want, but there’s no justification for a religion group’s rest day to be imposed on businesses and shoppers who are not adherents to said religion. Or at least, not strict followers of the archaic rules of their given religion.

Biogtry and Bullying

It’s long been a curiosity to me that the religions of the world all claim to be about peace and brotherly love while at the same time, being the basis for groups to assert their higher status as members of the one true faith; which in turn justifies the oppression, genocide and lesser status of anyone not at least publically conforming to the religious observance of appropriate gender roles, clothing, behaviours and ritual.

Apparently, lasting peace on earth can occur only when when everyone is converted to the one true religion or dispatched to their afterlife destination.

If you live in a theocratic society, then your options of which religion is the one to gamble on are limited to whichever sect is in charge this month.

But, living in a secular and democratic nation, your option of which faith to cast your vote for – well, before it’s dictated to you by the sword, anyway, is limited only by one’s motivation and research. You can pick a standard, delve into a breakaway sect, or cherry pick from a variety and/or start your very own.

It’s often a good idea to borrow from familiar ideas when you are first starting out and you’re still starting to attract followers.

But, in secular democratic nations, there’s civil rights. The idea that people are equal under the law. Deserving of fair treatment and dignity.

These are not religious ideas. Religions are not about equality, dignity or fairness.

Religions are about defining a group and circling the wagons while asserting specialness of the members just because they are members.

That religious attitude and the religious demand for conformity, underlies a lot of unnecessary social problems.

Because people who think that they are singled out because they are members of an organized religion as being better than non-members in society, that following a list of rules and conforming to behavior and gender roles somehow reflects their morality or quality as a person, is disturbing.

It is not surprising that the people who are discriminated against in society have a lot of overlap with people who are bullied in schools and workplaces.

After all, when secular society enshrines minority rights protections, it is a statement that people should not be mistreated because of their appearance, abilities, gender, sexuality or beliefs.

Worse, when secular society refuses to enshrine minority rights protections, it’s almost like declaring open season. Being called fag, queer or dyke remains the top schoolyard taunts – even when the labels don’t fit. Just not entirely conforming to male and female gender roles is enough for the tormenting to begin.

It’s merely compounded if the target child or teen actually is gay or lesbian.

It seems that in North America, that bullying has stepped up to dominate where broader social discrimination is being pushed back by secular law and more importantly, the courts and human rights tribunals or commissions upholding secular law of equality and equal treatment under the law.

As if, by bullying teens and children to death; a whole future category of people will disappear and not be a future concern or accommodation.

It is curious to me that at the point where a society has recognized historic wrongs and corrected them or stopped persecuting as hard as before or reached the apology and compensation phase – that it hasn’t seemed to occur to people that continuing to deny gays and lesbians a chance to marry and be equal now – is only setting up future reconciliation commissions.

It is more cost effective to not discriminate and not have to apologize or compensate later than to discriminate and compensate later.

Although, the glacial pace of First Nations treaties in British Columbia, and residential school resolution process across Canada, does suggest that the Federal Government is continuing with the original European arrivals’ genocide program. Just clinging to that claims die with the claimants and ignoring that First Nations are one of the few population groups that is breeding above replacement levels.

I can’t help but think that First Nation individuals would fare better in society as full Canadian citizens and collectively as a voter block with a strong youth component, than the current reservation and band council model under which, many First Nation communities enjoy neither the benefits of modern society nor the benefits of hunter/gatherer existence, but remain largely marginalized economically and existing in a constant flux of conflict, discrimination and public misunderstanding.

It’s enough to drive anyone to drink; realizing that bullying is applied discrimination.

religionophobia

If 9/11 taught us anything, it’s that we can’t afford to pretend that religion has merit or is a force for good in the world. We must no longer be willing to coddle religious sensibilities.

Religion is about dividing people between the real true believers and everyone else who’s lesser than; and since all religions claim to be The One True One, and there’s nothing to recommend one over any other – we need to put them all aside in favour of social justice and equality. Secular law under which everyone is equally deserving and has equal access to the law.

People are afraid of Islam because of the anticipated violent response and Christians complain bitterly about their sensibilities not being catered to because we know that they don’t respond violently. It’s as if western Christians are jealous of the fear Islam is inspiring because Christians know they can’t get away with a violent response – and this suggests that if they could get away with it, that they would respond violently.

Christians live in the secular world which will not tolerate religious violent protest – while Islamics tend to live in theocratic countries where such public expression of their intolerance is acceptable, even mandatory.

But the reason that Christians don’t, is because they live in a secular society not a theocratic one. They have things to lose in a secular society that are just not considerations in theocratic ones. Christians would lose their freedom and possessions for behaving violently – they would lose their affluence and influence – which is an important distinction.

In secular society, anyone can prosper – and it’s that prosperity that makes people behave and adhere to the rule of secular law.

Christians are entirely free to behave violently, they are just unwilling to do so for fear of legal consequences – so they turn their response to censorship and shoe horning their religion into the secular law. Which, if successful, would turn the western secular society into a theocracy, in which everyone loses much, but especially non-Christians or the not righteous enough or right kind of Christians.

So, it comes down to Christians wanting to be able to live in a Christian theocratic society were they are not mocked or they are at least able to respond to the mocking with violence.

And, athiests are people without theism, full stop, no replacement. Some may go so far to say that there’s no god, but that’s farther than atheism is, which is to be simply without faith – people who argue that atheism is anything else is attacking strawmen.

We are all atheist to all religions except for the one any person believes in and full athiests go that one more than believers do. Believers are atheist to all religions, save the one that they were most likely raised in, perhaps one they later were drawn to, but one nonetheless, while full atheists have none and no more.

The mechanism that’s at work for people to not mock those that we can reasonable predict will respond with violence is not fear, but rather, safety and concern for life.

We in the west are not the ones who bear the burden and cost of Islamic riots – people over there pay the cost of our mockery. We do not wish to cause needless suffering, loss of life and/or damage to infrastructure.

Moreover, atheism is rejecting theism and as such, has no need for martyrs when atheism is based in reason and logic. Having no need of martyrs, means that atheism does not attract the fanatic element that is common for religion.

Another key difference between theism and non-theism. Non-theism is about living and living well – while religion is about death and the afterlife – and so martyrs are needed, even mandatory.

If people can’t see that logic and reason are the basis and means for a good life all on their own, if they cannot understand good from bad morality and resultant behaviors, if they cannot see that the quality of life matters more than quantity of life….

Then I guess the rational, free thinking, skeptical, logical people need to keep doing outreach and education – to keep fighting that best of all fights – the fight for life, for liberty and equality – must continue.

Or there’s no point to human existence, if we can’t continually improve our lots and civilizations.

 

 

Freedom of Expression

In secular democratic countries, where the individual is the social unit of consequence – as opposed to theocratic nations where the family or tribe or some group designation is the social unit of consequence – the right to hold and express your views is an important right and entitlement in society.

Individuals do not matter in nations that hold the family or group as supreme, since individuals how fail to adhere to the social norms and expectations are often killed or sanctioned to restore collective honor to the family, to right the diminishment done to the collective by the individual.

One challenge is that the right to express yourself does not require you to do so responsibility or carry any consequences to how your words impact other people’s behaviours – although hate crime legislation tries to address this aspect.

The bigger challenge it would seem for people is that the right to express yourself does not obligate anyone to actually listen to you.

If what ideas you express are fairly mainstream, you are usually one voice in a chorus, and the more your ideas become fringe, your potential audience shrinks as well. Luckily, most people seek out information that confirms what they already believe – which is partly why people on opposite sides of an issue don’t communicate, they genuinely do not comprehend the opposing view because they don’t expose themselves to opposing views – often just enough to get the sound bytes to refute them, but not enough to actually understand what the opposing side is actually saying and meaning.

When you get far enough from the centre, the only people listening to what you say or post are people who are entirely like minded and depending on the fringe, possibility the police or other law enforcement.

So, I would imagine it’s anxious and lonely for people who are extreme fringe and too small in number to attract police notice, which they need to convince themselves of their rightness and of being a dangerous game changer ideologist.

I think that as there is no way to commit the perfect crime, since you’d go mad by never getting any credit for it – because to be perfect, you’d need to carry it off alone and leave no clues – we do many things to gain little more than bragging rights, so the perfect crime could only be carried out by an egoless person, for the sake of the crime itself, rather than achieving the perfect crime.

This thinking informs extremist thinkers – who know they stand apart from society, who must elevate themselves to a grand status – of being the only right or clear thinker, the only one capable to understand or even see What’s Really Going On That They Don’t Want You To Know.

To be heard, to gain followers but more, to be opposed, for being opposed is what gives conspiracy and extreme ideology meaning – it’s proof of being right! They Are Stopping You From Telling the Truth, the Real Truth, About Them. And no one but you, the ideologist/conspiracy theorist can handle the truth.

Except, that it’s not really the truth and it’s because the extremist can’t handle that the world is not that complex, convoluted, but not that complex, and that they are not the Lone Truth Handler who must enlighten others because the truth is out there and dangerous.

The extremist is a true believer – not skeptical but often cynical – the difference being that a skeptic doubts the claims while the cynic doubts the claimant. No lack of evidence nor evidence to the contrary will shake their belief – indeed, the lack of and contrary evidence is just more proof for the elaborate conspiracy, it’s all just part of the plan.

Conspiracy theories do not substantially differ from religion, except that religion tends to attract a wider audience, who then act as a social averaging, a leveling of behaviours and social norms to smooth out the lone extremists and keep people in the fold.

Except that many religions are not particular mainstream, they are doomsday cults, validating extremist small groups and often the group seeks to impose their religious norms on the population by force or block voting if they can attract enough people.

Charles Manson gained a following of a handful of people and sent them to murder wealthy people to start a civil ethnic war, which strategy repeated itself in Norway, only Anders Behring Breivik didn’t bother with followers, he just tapped into the right wing extremism generally in Europe and accessible on the internet – rather than connect with an actual social movement or begin one – that, after all, takes effort and draws police attention too soon.

Jim Jones took nearly a thousand with him and the Heaven’s Gate group had just over 20 members. Cults have mass murdered and suicide or selected targets to kill to achieve their poligious ends and attempt to gain power and status in society that has rejected them and their ideology as meaningful members – otherwise, they wouldn’t be fringe extremists.

But the solution is not that all views are equally valid, because they are not – most people do not hold extreme views because they are not valid, logical, rational, fair and balanced, extremist views are discriminatory, bigoted and distasteful more often than not.

The solution is education – to teach children to think critically, logically and equitably.

The solution is not shunting extremism to the fringe, but to focus attention upon it, why it’s wrong, but also to determine what attracts people to such views. Often it’s lack of economic opportunity – when people are able to participate in society, have autonomy and freedoms – and understand that everyone is entitled to the same access to opportunities, to the same rights and freedoms – people are more willing to include rather than exclude when they understand that there’s no limit to rights, they won’t run out before the line of people waiting for their share.

It seems what people most need to learn and understand is how big and small their sphere of influence is.

Gays being able to serve in the military does not deprived heterosexuals of being able to serve, anymore than black people getting to serve took anything away from white people serving.

That gays even want to serve in the military should speak volumes about how much we have in common with our fellow citizens – we want the rights and the responsibilities of citizenship.

Gays being able to marry does not diminish or prevent heterosexuals from marrying any more than interracial marriage diminished or made marriage unattractive to same ethnic couples.

It improves society to be inclusive of all members of the society.

It made little sense to me, growing up in Canada, where I could rely on rights and freedoms and have them all unavailable when I came out as a lesbian in 1992. I was legally fired from two jobs and almost not permitted to rent housing. Legally. I had lost my rights and didn’t get them all back until 2003 when gay marriage became law – for most of my adult life, living in Canada, I have not been able to enjoy the same rights and freedoms and legal protection from discrimination as other Canadians.

But gays and atheists – the two most reviled minority groups – have not turned to violence to claim our place in our secular societies. We use the courts, we educate and do outreach, hold conferences, we live as if and wait for the day that we too have all the rights and social standing as other people – for the day when being gay or being atheist is just another bit of information rather than the basis for determining how people treat you or react to you.

It is religion combined with extreme views that attempts to assert itself through violence or by justifying discrimination against those the religion doesn’t like – which is not only anyone outside of the given religion, but generally targets specific segments of society – like gays or atheists, ethnic groups or members of rival (aka closely related) religions. Religion is the basis and justification for excluding people as being equal to everyone else.

When religion says a particular group is immoral and beneath consideration, bigotry follows and if the religion gains sufficient social standing, systemic discrimination and even violence  in the form of hate crime often follows.

The most dangerous aspect of religion is the veneer of divinity – any person can claim a deity told them thus and so – and if they can make their story compelling enough, gather followers and form a new religion.

One person believing something without basis is delusional, but a large enough group, and it becomes religion, and large enough and over enough time, a mainstream and established religion with the expectation and history of being above reproach and unquestioned in authority and power and influence.

If we are to have a society – and society is global, no country stands alone, we are one planet, interconnected, what happens in one country can no longer be deemed an internal matter when we are connected by land, air and water – pollution and radiation travels, people migrate or flee and natural disasters know no such imaginary things as borders.

We need to be in a reality and evidence based world and not allow delusional or magical thinking to be pervasive or to continue to divide us and prevent everyone from sharing in the wealth of resources, equitable participation, rights and freedoms – because rights and freedoms are clearly not self evidence or inalienable when only a portion of the world enjoys them, when the rights and freedoms you have are dependent on where you live.

We need to stop allowing extremist views to be validated by moderate ones – we need to draw a line and say, this far is okay, but after that, you’re going to need to seriously talk with someone about your inability to work and play well with other people.

We will never be rid of extremists, but we can stop coddling the similar and mainstream related sensibilities and make a clear stand.

And, we must hold religions accountable for the harm they have and continue to cause – from direct harm such as the Vatican sex crimes against the children in all countries where they have their corporate offices and operations to the theocratic nations were women are held as barely second class, just above the children, but below the family dog in terms of value and participation.

People are entitled to hold extremist views, but there is no obligation for us to act as if they are valid views. All things are not equal and should not be considered as such.